Before I became an I.T. support specialist, I spent 12 plus years working in service industry roles. I held various positions from waitress to retail management. During those years, I learned how to help people, not just help them find things, or take their orders- but genuinely help through offering suggestions for projects, or going ‘the extra mile’ by ensuring they had what they needed, even if that meant traveling to obtain items or battling prescription insurance companies, or loading 80lb bags of cement into a pickup truck. I’ll be the first to admit my customer service game isn’t always on point, sometimes I have tough days too. But customer service is more than that. It’s listening, showing empathy, and talking to people like they’re humans.
I recently was hired to a University. I’ll be starting there in two weeks. It’s my dream job and I’m beyond excited. When I broke the news to my current employer, a lot of the staff were bummed out. I received this email earlier today from a woman I’ve helped out a few times with various tickets:
Crystal,
I missed you when you came through on yesterday. I was so sadden to hear you are leaving us! You have been such a great access for me. Never have you made me feel inadequate or stupid! Always helpful, patient and just a wonderful person to work with. I know your new opportunity is an exceptional one and you would be foolish not to accept the chance to work at the University. It is my prayer that the Good Lord will bless you! Hopefully, every once in a while you will come by and visit me/us.
Great Success!!!
I had others day similar to me, and while it warmed my heart, it made me sad to think that anyone would make her feel stupid because she doesn’t know how to do something. No one should ever feel that way. Just because technology comes easy for me, doesn’t mean it will for a teller. Everyone has things they’re good at, and not everyone is going to know what you think they should know, nor should they be expected to.
In this field, it is imperative to be patient, kind, and understanding. They call us for help, and that’s what we are here for. Talk to people, explain what you are doing and how you are working to come up with a solution to the problem. Ask them how their day is going. Ask probing questions without automatically assuming things. Be polite. Instead of asking, “well what were you doing?” Try “can you show me what was happening and maybe I can figure it out from there?”
Being friendly and approachable makes a big difference, people trust you more and are more receptive to what you have to say. Additionally, it creates a better environment all the way around. I know I like my job a lot better when people feel like they can talk to me.
I think it’s important to treat people with kindness in general. I hope if you’re reading this you’ll slow down to think about some of your interactions and try to meet people with empathy in mind. Especially if you’re in the service industry, I think you’ll find your job will get a heck of a lot better.

